Women reveal distrust in police after murder of Sarah Everard

‘How are we meant to trust the police?’ Women reveal how they no longer go out alone after dark, feel ‘let down’ by the Met’s response and will REFUSE to stop for officers after murder of Sarah Everard by killer cop Wayne Couzens

  • Wayne Couzens staged arrest using lockdown laws to abduct and murder Sarah
  • Women from across the UK have shared their safety fears in the wake of killing
  • Several women have been left too frightened to walk or run alone late at night 
  • Others expressed rage that women don’t know their rights if stopped by police  

The horrific murder of Sarah Everard sparked an outpouring of anger, disgust and fear around the country as women raged against the terror they felt simply walking home at night. 

Now, following news Wayne Couzens staged an arrest using lockdown laws to abduct, rape and murder Sarah on March 3rd, women around the country have shared their fury and distrust with the police

Speaking to FEMAIL women of various ages revealed their safety fears in the wake of Sarah’s murder and how they can ‘no longer put their trust in someone with a uniform’. 

While some admitted they were not shocked about the police’s exploitation of power, others say the news has left them too frightened to go out alone at night and furious women don’t know their own rights. 

Citing both the horrific murder of Sarah and Sabina Nessa – women told have asked what is in place to keep them safe on the streets? And ultimately, What can be done for women to be able to say “Are you who you say you are”? 

Miss Everard’s disappearance sparked a huge manhunt and led to an outpouring of anger about the safety of women on the streets 

The mother, whose dad was a Met police officer, had a very positive view of the police but was shocked to discover the news that Couzens had been a member of the force

Emma Kay, 32, London 

Founder of WalkSafe app and daughter of police officer  

Emma started to experience harassment from the age of 14 as a schoolgirl and says it escalated in 20s – experiencing being ‘groped and manhandled’ despite travelling in large groups of women. 

‘I’ve also been flashed at and I think it’s something as women we tend to normalise weirdly and it shouldn’t be’, she said. ‘What we have to remember with both Sabina and Sarah is that they were only walking home.’ 

The mother, whose dad was a Met police officer, had a very positive view of the police, but was shocked to discover the news that Couzens had been a member of the force. 

‘I think it’s a wake-up call to everyone, including the police, that we need to challenge attitudes,’ she said. ‘The case shows how quickly harassment can escalate and we need to take misogyny seriously on all fronts.

Emma Kay, 32, London, is the co-founder of WalkSafe, an app she says ‘shouldn’t have to exist’ which helps keep women safe while walking alone 

‘It’s also shown up what a postcode lottery it is, in that not all the police forces are aligned in their behaviour, which is a real issue. People do need consistency and to be able to tell when something is not right.

‘But mostly, I guess like all of us, I feel let down. It is even more wounding in this horrible case that there is such a breach of trust.’ 

She has since launched WalkSafe, an app she says ‘shouldn’t have to exist’ which tells you the most recent crimes where you live and any route you’re taking so you can avoid them. 

Another feature lets you alert your safety contacts if you’re late home and a tap feature where you can alert people if your feel unsafe and gives your precise location. 

‘It’s an app myself and my family came up with to protect and empower our own families, so please use it and at least your friends and family will know if you feel in danger and exactly where you are’, she said. 

Toni Hargis, 60, Surrey

Author of How to Stand Up to Sexism 

Toni, who wrote How to Stand Up to Sexism, says that her opinion on the police hasn’t changed after the news, and that ‘nothing shocks her’ after researching the subject for the last three years

Toni, who wrote How to Stand Up to Sexism, says that her opinion on the police hasn’t changed after the news, and that ‘nothing shocks her’ after researching the subject for the last three years.  

Wayne Couzens (pictured) is the new urban bogeyman, an ogre cloaked in the police identity that gave him power over defenceless Sarah Everard

‘From physical horrors to what’s done at work, women are still experiencing too much and there is still a lot of improvement to be made. I think the biggest eye opener for me this morning has been how much of a bubble those at the top are in. 

‘Apart from continuing to put the onus on women to deal with this problem (flag down a bus???) to even thinking that buses are that frequent, is alarming and depressing. 

‘It also makes it sound like the Met don’t care; they’ve had six months to figure out what to say and this sounds like it was written on the back of the proverbial fag packet.

She went on: ‘The bigger problem is the lad culture that allows men to call each other The Rapist, as a joke. Clearly Couzens must have been a sketchy character around women, but I’m willing to bet not one of his colleagues bothered to find out what had happened, how these women were or any other details. 

‘We’ve all worked with someone who’s a little too handsy, and yet if women complain, we’re told “He does that with everyone” as if it’s all okay. It’s not okay.’  

Saffron Rizzo, 28, west London 

Runner who no longer feels safe on the streets 

Saffron feels that while the Sarah Everard case has brought to light male awareness of women’s safety on the street, it’s ‘horrific’ that women now feel unable to trust police officers

Saffron feels that while the Sarah Everard case has helped men become more aware of women’s safety concerns on the street, it’s ‘horrific’ that women now feel unable to trust police officers.  

‘Would I choose to walk home in the dark, no I wouldn’t? I do think there’s a sense of women being more alert, there’s things on your phone you instal and sirens and alarms and women are becoming a bit more aware. 

‘I used to run at night at ten at night and I wouldn’t do that now, I used to always go for late night runs. 

‘I did it a few weeks ago it was completely quiet, I wasn’t far from my house, I knew the route but I didn’t feel like I should be out running this late. You think people are looking at you like “Whats that idiot doing running out at night, she’s putting herself in danger?” which is sad. 

‘It’s come out that he arrested her, it’s horrific. If you can’t trust [police officers] well then who can you trust? I’d be scared of a normal guy on a street, but would never think twice of someone in the police force or in a uniform. 

‘Who do you trust? If someone arrests you, you’re going to go. You’re not going to resist. What do you say? Can you prove you’re an officer? How are we meant to question someone? How are we meant to trust them. What is in place for us to be able to say “Are you who you say you are”?’ 

Faye Dickinson, 28, London

Content creator who no longer trusts the police

Content creator Faye says she doesn’t feel safe walking the streets at the moment, appalled that ‘people who are in uniform who we put our trust in to protect us, they can’t even keep us safe’

Content creator Faye says she doesn’t feel safe walking the streets at the moment, appalled that ‘people who are in uniform who we put our trust in to protect us, they can’t even keep us safe’. 

‘How are you likely to trust someone after this, not even a police officer, because it could be someone who could literally murder you like they did it Sarah. How can you trust people in this position?’ 

Faye says that she wouldn’t feel confident approaching a police officer late at night because of the situation, adding that she ‘would have felt confident before.’ 

‘I used to walk home at night but since the Sarah thing happened it just doesn’t agree with me to walk home I just always get a taxi from the station or something to make sure I get home safe.’ 

What are your rights if you are stopped by the police? Hannah Costley, solicitor in the Crime and Regulatory team at Slater Heelis tells FEMAIL the information you’re entitled to know

Stop and search

  • The Officer’s name and police station they are attached to.
  • They must show you their warrant card if they are in plain clothes
  • Why you have been stopped
  • Why they want to search you
  • What they expect to find as a result of the stop and search
  • The law under which they are allowed to stop and search you
  • That you have the right to a written record of the search. This record must include the following information:
  • Ethnicity
  • Grounds for search
  • Object of search
  • Police officer details
  • Date
  • Time
  • Place

Stop and account

  • The Officer’s name and police station they are attached to. They must show you their warrant card if they are in plain clothes
  • Reason for the encounter
  • Inform you that you are entitled to a copy of the record of the encounter
  • What is the difference between stop-and-search and stop-and-account?
  • A stop and search takes place when a Police Officer has reasonable grounds to suspect that you may be carrying the following: illegal drugs, a weapon, stolen property or something that could be used to facilitate the commission of a crime.
  • Reasonable grounds include the suspicion that serious violence could take place, you’re in a specific location or you are carrying a weapon or have used one. A stop and search cannot be based on a person’s physical appearance, previous convictions generalisations or stereotypes. A search must be carried out in a public place.
  • You may be arrested following a stop and search and if so the Police must tell you that you are being arrested, what you are being arrested for, caution you, explain the necessity for arrest and tell you that you are not free to leave. (Note that S.60 Criminal Justice Act and S47A Terrorism Act searches do not require suspicion)
  • The Police have no legal power to detain a person for a stop and account. A stop and account usually involves the Police asking what you are doing, why you are in the area, where you have been and where you are going. You have no obligation to co-operate and can walk away.

Can I refuse to answer police questions?

You do not have to answer any questions during either a stop and search or stop and account. Anything you do say could be later used against you. The right to silence extends to an interview under caution as stated in the first line of the Police caution “you do not have to say anything.”

Can I walk away from the police if they stop me?

Stop and search

No, if you walk away from an Officer that wishes to conduct a stop and search can detain you.

Stop and account

Yes and you cannot be searched or arrested just because you refused to engage with them.

Do I have to give my name and address to the police?

You do not have to give your name and address for either stop.

Can I film someone being arrested?

Yes. Footage of an arrest can sometimes be paramount to winning a case or evidencing a complaint against the Police. As recent as last week we made an application to dismiss the case against one of our clients on the basis that the Police’s entry into their home and subsequent arrest was unlawful. If our client had not filmed the arrest, there would have been no evidence of the Police’s actions as their body worn camera was turned off.


‘I don’t trust the cameras on the street, let alone the police anymore. I’ve seen a lot of stuff recently, there are cameras they don’t even work. With Sabina – why didn’t these cameras work? It’s scary. Why are we paying council tax, why are we paying so much money when we’re not safe in our own borough?’

She feels as though councils and police are ‘failing women’: ‘Why do they have all these cameras? They’ll send penalty charges for speeding but can’t protect women on the street. 

‘I have to do it myself, just not walk on my own at night time. I make sure I get a taxi and just get home safe because I could not put my trust in to someone with a uniform after what happened to Sarah, you just can’t put your trust in those people anymore. 

‘What happened with Sarah was so scary, he was in a uniform he stopped her and arrested her, it could be me it could be any one of us you never know. 

‘Before the murder I was absolutely fine. I thought, “I’m safe, there’s cameras  on the street the police officers are walking the streets”. But since the Sarah thing happened,you just do not feel safe. 

She feels there should be ‘proof’ an officer is working for an arrest to be made, adding that ‘Sarah was vulnerable to fall in his trap it could be any one of us.’ 

‘I personally don’t know why he was walking around. Clearly there is not enough education within the MET, this should have been handled. ‘ 

Brenda Gabriel, 39, London

Former Crown Prosecution Service employee 

Brenda used to work in admin in the CPS, and says that the thing that riles her the most is that Sarah was deceived under the use of Covid laws.  

‘I think we’re most upset about the fact he was able to deceive her under the use of the Covid act, which is total abuse of power,’ she explained. 

‘I also used to work for the CPS so I feel these things a bit deeper, i’ve seen both sides of it. 

‘If she’d have known her rights – which is that nobody could stop her from walking home  – she may have had an opportunity to kick up stink or for the witnesses who drove past, because they presumed she did something wrong. 

‘If she’d have known that she didn’t have to stop for him, and certainly didn’t have to be arrested by him, things may have been different and that’s really upsetting.

‘Generally as a woman I don’t know any woman who feels safe alone walking home at night. You’re always kind of looking behind you and making sure someone isn’t walking behind you especially after what has happened to Sarah and Sabina.’

She believes police are exploiting the fact women don’t know their rights to abuse their power.  

‘I would be worried to be anywhere were there are not a lot of witnesses, any time of day. 

‘I definitely wouldn’t be stopping for any police officers, regardless of what the situation is. I would sooner continue walking if I knew there wasn’t any reason to be stopped.  

‘The fact he was able to use it as an excuse when it’s not illegal and has never been illegal for anybody to walk home from anywhere or to go for exercise it wasn’t illegal to be out on the street, but the fact she thought she had done something wrong really angers me.  

‘The majority of officers are there to do a good job, however there are rouge ones within it – but there is a culture of covering up the rogue ones rather and just shrugging things off.’ 

Becky, 39, Gloucestershire

Blogger who is too afraid to go on early morning walks or get a taxi alone

Full time blogger Becky used to love going for early morning walks alone – but now is too scared to even get in a cab by herself. 

‘I loved the peace and quiet and stillness of the world before it awoke’, she said. ‘These days however, I see it very differently and haven’t been on an early morning walk alone since.

‘I live in quite a remote area in a small town so my walks would often include being in very secluded spots like woodland or unlit pavements. 

‘I still go out on my bike at the same time, however this doesn’t seem as scary as in my head – I can cycle quickly away from anyone and have two front lights and a back light to keep myself as well lit as possible.

I have also downloaded an (tracking) app which I have linked to my husband so when i’m out he can see exactly where I am and it alerts him when I get home so he know’s i’m safe. I hate that I feel I need to do this but it’s just to stressful going out alone

‘How I would feel if I was stopped by a lone policeman when I was alone myself.

Before getting in to their car I would ask them to put on their body cam and get someone else to accompany us in the car. If that wasn’t possible I would want to phone someone I knew to let them know where I was going and what would be happening. 

‘I’d even want to take a photo of the police officer and send it to my husband – just incase. These days I wouldn’t even get in to a taxi alone, especially at night.’ 

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