My partner is addicted to looking at naked women online
DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner can’t stop watching porn and looking at naked women online. Sometimes he even writes comments about their bodies.
We almost broke up over it after I confronted him.
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I asked how he’d feel if I was lusting over naked men. He promised he would never do it again but it’s clear he doesn’t understand how hurt I am.
I’m 27 and he’s 29. We have been together for two years and were talking about getting married.
But now I’m not sure if I should stay with him.
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I know he’s still looking at nude women although he has stopped commenting.
I do love him but I can’t cope with this.
DEIDRE SAYS: He might feel what he does is not cheating because he isn’t meeting these women.
However, if you feel uncomfortable with this, he is damaging your relationship. You need to talk and rebuild trust.
Tell him how this makes you feel and ask him to give the relationship more attention. The self-help tips in my support pack Looking After Your Relationship should help.
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