My husband has suddenly started turning down my advances for sex

DEAR DEIDRE: WE haven’t had sex for more than a week and I don’t know why my husband has lost interest in me.

We’ve been married for 15 years and have two daughters both in their teens.


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Up until now we’ve had sex at least two or three times a week, except for a few weeks when our girls were born.

I’ve been giving him all the usual signs but he’s been making a joke and just going to sleep. I felt really hurt and I asked him why he was turning me down.

He said: “We aren’t 16 any more, we are both 42 and we need to grow up and accept that.”

I don’t understand why he’s being like this.

DEIDRE SAYS: You have a track record of regular sex so don’t pressurise your husband if he is off sex for only a week. He may be unusually tired.

Show him affection without expecting sex and you’ll likely find him back on form before long.

If not, then do urge him to see his GP.

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