My husband has been searching online profiles on a website for married men and women

I’m absolutely devastated. I’ve seen his profile in which he states he is attached but looking for extra fun.

He claims he hasn’t spoken to anyone on there or met anybody. I don’t believe him.

I’m 27 and my husband is 29. We’ve been married for six years and our little girl is ten months old. I love him so much it’s killing me inside.

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DEIDRE SAYS: It is little wonder you’re hurt. If you love him and want to save the marriage, tell him that.

Explain he has to convince you he loves and desires only you, but also be open to hearing what led him to behave like this.

Maybe he felt sidelined by the demands of a new baby?

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