My fella keeps a list of girls' names – they're all the people he's had sex with

DEAR DEIDRE: IN my boyfriend’s notebook I found a list of girls’ names – with mine at the bottom. I think they are all the girls he’s had sex with.

I know we all have a past – I have had a couple of sexual partners – but I can’t forget about all those girls above me. There must have been around 30. Is that how he feels about women – that we are just sexual conquests?


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We have been dating for four months and I thought we had something special. He is 27 and I’m 23.

DEIDRE SAYS: I agree that keeping a list like that is juvenile.

It’s going to eat away at you so best tell him you stumbled over this list and were hurt that you seemed just to be a name to add to it.

Say that’s not how you view relationships and ask him how he feels about you and how he sees the future.

If he still seems stuck with that immature view, best move on.

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