My ex has found out about my new relationship and he’s devastated

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex has found out about my new relationship and he’s devastated.

His reaction has torpedoed my plans for the future.

I hit it off with my new guy like you wouldn’t believe.

Right from our first kiss, I felt like I’d hit the jackpot.

I’m 27 and my new guy’s 31. We only met six months ago, a few weeks after I split up with my ex.

My ex was into drugs and had hidden debts.

He hadn’t brought anything to the table for a few years although he was a brilliant stepdad to my five-year-old son.

We went from a loving relationship to physically hurting each other – for that reason alone I know we can’t get back together.

I want to keep going down this path with my new guy.

Do I just go for it?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Definitely. Moving on doesn’t mean you need to erase all memories of the man you loved and lost, but keep looking forward.

You may have unresolved feelings for your ex.

Perhaps you got together with your current boyfriend too soon.

Try to focus on the good things in this relationship, and remind yourself of the valid reasons why you ended it with your ex.

My support pack Moving On will help you.

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