I so want kids with my new girlfriend – but I had a vasectomy ten years ago

I am 43 and my girlfriend is 37. I was married for 18 years and have three wonderful children from that marriage.

I met my girlfriend not long after my divorce. We have been together for three years and our relationship is great.

We plan to buy a house together in the near future and have spoken about starting our own family.

We can’t afford a vasectomy reversal. Is there any other way around this?

I love this girl and don’t want to let her down.

DEIDRE SAYS: Vasectomy reversal is far from guaranteed to result in a successful pregnancy.

There are options, such as using donor sperm and adopting. You must explore this carefully together.

See fertilitynetworkuk.org or call 01424 732361.

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