I am freaking out because I am 18 and still haven't lost my virginity

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M a male aged 18 and freaking out because I’m still a virgin.

I know I’m not likely to get married for another ten years, but suppose I still have no experience and the girl I marry has a lot.


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She’d be comparing me with a long list of sexual partners.

I told a girl I’m just friends with about how worried I am.

She said a girl would be choosing me because she wanted me, not her exes.

But she might be choosing me for some other reason, like being financially secure.

I’ve never even kissed a girl and this is really getting to me.

DEIDRE SAYS: Social media can make it feel as if everyone else is having a wild and amazing time – but they are not.

Stay calm and allow yourself to enjoy friendships with girls for now.

Do not pressure them or yourself and in time you are more likely to have a great relationship if you see each other as people and not just a way to gain experience.

My e-leaflet Learning About Relationships explains more.

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