My son is horrified at the idea of me having a sex life after his dad died

He is 16, I’m 38. We were both devastated but, three months ago, I felt ready to relaunch my social life.

I joined a dating site and I’ve met a lovely man of 43. He’s divorced.

My son was horrified when I brought this man home to meet him. He hates the idea of his mum seeing another man. He says if I have sex with him, it will be disgusting.

My new partner says he will be patient but how can I tell my son I have to get on with my life?

DEIDRE SAYS: Your son has lost one parent and now he’s worried he is going to lose you, too. Plus it’s normal for children to feel horrified at the idea of their parents having a sex life.

And it’s hard for children to understand that you can meet another partner without it meaning you didn’t love the first.

Don’t rush this new relationship but be firm with your son.

He can find bereavement support through Hope Again (hopeagain.org.uk, 0808 808 1677).

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