It’s really bothered me that my close male friend is in lockdown with another woman – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: IT’S eating into me that a guy I’m friends with has gone into lockdown with another woman.

I’ve known him for years. We are very close and I have always felt we could talk to each other about anything. He is 31 and I am a woman of 32.

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We have always talked mainly online but rarely met up. I honestly knew from the start we would only be friends, nothing more.

But I felt sick when he said his girlfriend had moved in with him for lockdown. I managed to say how I feel. He was lovely about it and says nothing has changed. I think he might even like the idea of me having feelings for him, which he doesn’t return. I know he values my friendship, but what about me?

DEIDRE SAYS: Forget about his need for you. A friendship should make you feel good too. You enjoyed feeling special to him and the one he confided in.

I think you nursed a secret hope it would be something more. Maybe it’s good you move on so you’re emotionally free to get close to someone new.

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